beanie59

About Me

I have been married for 22 years. I have 3 children, 21, 20, and 14. On February 13, 2014 I found out that My 57 year old husband is in love with a 33 year old married woman with a 2 year old. I gave up my high paying career to allow him to get where he is in his career. He is a very high powered doctor, who takes care of VIPs all over the world. (but he\'s in academic medicine, so its not a high powered salary) I am currently struggling with the fact that I was married to such a liar/cheater, and that he is in a relationship with a liar/cheater. I feel so bad for my children. I feel deserted by his family and some of my closest friends. (I\'m sure they just don\'t know what to say) My biggest fear is how my children will turn out, and about how we can survive financially. I am feeling overwhelmed right now, but look forward to a healthy social life and interests.