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- I'm sure this type of post happens on a weekly basis from others like myself damned if I do, damned if I don't. This Sunday, Mother's Day, is the 3rd birthday of GS2. His mother read me the riot act last month for passing hand me downs to him thru...
- I'm done forcing solutions and instead am Letting Go and Letting God. I recently heard a song by Lukas Graham called 7 Years Old…..I do hope one day God will bring this to the attention of ES. Its a great song.
- 6 years ago my ex-DIL cheated on my ES with their next door neighbor and it broke up both marriages. Their marriage ended in violence and turmoil and his father and I donated the full amount of our savings account to help ES with lawyer fees. ...
- Does anyone else find themselves bound and determined to give up trying, only to go back into denial and think of new and creative ways to reach the EDs, ESs, and EGKs or am I the only one?
- I was wondering if other estrangements have occurred in your families in previous generations.I was there the day my mother and aunt offended my grandmother to the point that she didn't speak to or see any of us. My mother and aunt were in the...
- On Children by Kahlil GibranYour children are not your children.They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.They come through you but not from you,And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.You may give them your love...
- Being estranged from son 1, having son 2 move 4 hours away, and recovering from divorce after 31 years of marriage, I'm now raising two golden retrievers - ages 2 years & 8 months. I got the second one between surgery to remove breast tumors and 6...
- I'm curious what methods everyone has tried in hopes of changing things.For me, I've been thru this with my ES, his ex-wife and his current fiancé - a span of 10 frustrating years.The things I've tried include…..• Killing the abusers with...
- https://suzytoronto.com/media/com_hikashop/upload/upload/f234_plan_b-w_print.pngLove this and wanted to share it.
- In a previous post I told how my son and finance recently had a new baby and I sent 4 nice outfits for the baby, along with a bag of nice hand-me-downs for GS. Fiance sent no thank you, but she did hit the roof that the clothes for her golden boy...
- Has anyone disinherited their EKs? If so, have you told them why?
- Its 3am and I'm very angry at my son's fiancé for telling me I will not see "Her Children". I'd love to give her a piece of my mind, but I highly doubt telling her the following will help the situation. But I need to get it off my chest or I'm...
- My ES has GS1 from marriage #1. GS2 and GD1 from current fiancé. With both GSs I was pushed out of their lives by the mothers and ES allowed it and probably instigated it as well. GD1 is over a month old and I've never been invited to see her. ...
- Hi I joined this group last fall. I've not been in here a while as the whole topic depresses me. My introductory blog was posted on 9/27/15 - "Twice Estranged by Same Son". My son broke the ice with me in December after 3 months of silence in the...
- I view Christmas as a time of love, joy, giving, sharing etc and I found and purchased a couple toys I'd love to give my 2 year old E GS, and I've contemplated leaving it on their porch to be found Christmas morning (but opted against that, don't...