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- I know many of you have posted about your EC or semi EC's asking for money, but as anyone sent one money, without strings, knowing they could use it? Any results positive or negative?
- This year I didn't cry though I'm not really sure why. Looking at my friend's pages, I noticed a few primary types of posts: messages from their kids, photo of them together today and/ or a tribute to their mom, even if she was not living.I feel...
- Tonight I watched the movie Ricki and the Flash. Not my story, but the similarities with divorce opens up old wounds and reminds me of what I'm missing. It seeems like stories of estrangement are everywhere in real life, and fiction....
- I reached out to my EC again. Nothing from one. Other might consider something so I am told from my Ex. It seems they are waiting for me to say exactly what they want me to, including whatever harms they think I did. I have tried apologizing,...
- The words this lady Christine uses below on her site second firsts are surely things I am able to relate to post estrangement. I've been afraid to move away. It feels like another "tie" broken with EC. Stupid but that is how I feel....
- The unexpected has happened; my ex is remarrying. I guess it hurts since I'm no longer home base or anything for the EC. They'll be one big happy family as their pictures show.
- nice to you, do you feel sad for loss ? Happy, as in see, some people do like me? Something else?
- Since the estrangment I have drank daily for 4 years. I have stopped only recently after bettering my diet. but am worrying that it is too late. I was so depressed, alone and had financial problems as well. A lot of the time, I wanted to e...
- Really enjoying the insight from her, but I think we can relate since we had a shocking loss as well. secondfirsts.com==================================================================After my husband died the next decade of my life was nothing like...
- My (our) cat is dying today , only 7 years old so shock. I brought him home instead of putting him to sleep today, for organ failure. It may sound silly, but this cat was the bond between EC and me (was key word) and is one is the last things...
- I feel almost silly mentioning it, since we're all dealing with so much pain here. I feel like I go- from hope, to pain, to getting by okay- not blissed out but coping, existing, moving forward. Change order and repeat. My sitch involves PAS, and...
- First, I admire all of you who have been here longer than I have, and who offer so much support to others. I'm sure it's been commented on before, but everytime, I see someone say (as I have some of these), I wonder: He's a narcissist. He's crazy...
- This was something I could really relate to.http://www.secondfirsts.com/2014/07/how-to-find-your-new-inner-circle-after-loss/
- Thanks for all your previous kind words. It helps. (I'm not asking you to just tell me what I want to hear, but I am pretty raw right now) I moved 5 years ago to a much smaller eclectic city. I feel so alone. Actually, I am alone. I have...
- Hi. I don't wan to relive my story, as it's been part of the last 5 years. First my kids were estranged from their dad, my ex. for few years. I believed them, stood behind them to all of our detriment. Child support was lowered. I couldn't...