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- Yes! This has become my decision, after over 20 years of an 'off and on again' unnecessary estrangement with our ED...Our PTSD/Personality Disorder/Drug/Alcohol & often cruel & mean ED has tried to, more often than not, make my Mother's Day as...
- And, So, after no response to us in any way for months at a time, & for over 20 years or more of the estrangement crap, this woman carrying our daughter's name, decides to send ME...AN - "I LOVE YOU MOM", - email?!l HUH?! WHAT!?!...SO F--ng...
- It's a long while since I or my Hubby have come to this site. I've kept a brief eye minimally, & missed some here. I sadly hear & read the heavy pain, confusion, & sadness still, from old & new members!...But, we took the plunge! And, my Hubby & I...
- Suicide!?...To even say this word is scary, particularly for those who may just be caught up in current pain & hurt that makes NO SENSE! (Just like this estrangement does! It just makes no sense!!..) But it is ok to have a momentary question of...
- My hubby & I got a call from our ED after we told her to stop calling us with HER demands & HER NEEDS & mandates & screaming, etc..She never asks how we are. She went as long as 2 & 3 years at a time, 2 or 3 or 4 times, never calling us at all,...
- SUCH SUPPORT & CARE FROM SOOO MANY HERE! THANK YOU! ...SO, let me preface what I'm suggesting here with this: My hubby & I sure DON'T, CAN'T, & WON'T - give our ED basically any leeway in regard to that - she "either behave toward us, herself, &...
- Everywhere we go in life, we're expected to be reasonably careful to not break things or one anothers spirits. As a child we get more chances, while learning this, but even then, if we don't heed our actions, we are eventually held accountable, &...
- I know for us, our 43 YO ED has been diagnosed wiith borderline personality disorder & can become physcotic if she goes off her meds. But, she was different from early on, regardless. By this, I mean, that when we now look back, she seemed to...
- A thank you to all of you who helped keep my hubby & I focused on being good people 1st, under very confusing circumstances in regard to our ED, who also does have diagnosed mental issues. As we suspected, our ED was off her meds, & she was failing...
- Our nearly 43 YO ED made contact again by leaving messages for her dad & I to call her asap after hearing NOTHING AGAIN from her for over a year. We have had such serious estrangement over the last 15 years, that things go w/o contact for up to 2-3...
- You know, these EK's love to screw up our heads & hearts! Control is their middle name it seems...We found that what helped us, is that we sent a final carefully constructed email letter to our 'alien/pod ED, about 4 months or so ago. We've heard...
- You know, WE really do LOVE THEM UNCONDITIONALLY!...How many of you are irritated &/or even outraged that I could suggest or even say such a thing?!? But the truth is, that's exactly what we are together here on these etrangement forums...WE ARE...
- I gave a reply to another person in group, about her suggestion that we may want to read a book/FB comment about toxic relationships & guilt by McGill. I've read it & it has some generally useful suggestions. He has a large following, & is wise in...
- I gave a reply to another person in group, about her suggestion that we may want to read a book about toxic relationships & guilt by McGill. I've read it & it has some generally useful suggestions. He has a large following, & is wise in many ways...
- I said this to a fine mom on this forum, & I needed to restate this to all on this site, as my words & heart goes out to all of you! ... To even have been put in this estrangement situation like our EK have done, is just dispicable!! To even have to...