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- I am finding that I have a hard time trusting any new relationships since my ES turned his back on me. if your own child throws you away why would anyone else love you unconditionally?My poor husband (who i married after the estrangement) cannot...
- I have not spoken to my ES verbally since November 2009. There have been some mean emails but other than that I have had no contact. My story is familiar, I never thought this would happen to me. I had my son at 18 and threw myself into caring for...
- My ES decided almost 6 years ago that he does not want me in his life. I was devasted and it took a lot of years to accept this, I feel like if the reasons were valid then maybe I would have accepted it sooner but the reasons he gives are...
- If someone asks me, did you do all you could do? I am not sure how I would answer that. I did not handle this rejection very well, in the beginning I could not believe what was happening, I did not realize how much my DIL disliked me and how much...
- I have been reading the topics today and I must say I am so disheartened by some of the posts. It is really sad what our children have done to us, I am sure no 2 stories are the same but almost all have common events that we have all lived through.I...
- It has been almost 5 years since my ES said he no longer wants me in his life, almost 5 years since he threw me away and for the most part I have moved on. I don't write letters anymore or send him emails, i just don't do anything.Then when you...
- My DIL will put a new profile picture on her face book page, usually of the granddaughters I have never met. She does this every few months, I cannot access because somehow my Computer whiz ES has my IP address blocked from even searching for them...
- I cannot beleive he is 29 today, this is the 5th Birthday that I have missed, not sure how I feel this year, I do not send anything or acknowledge him in any way.I guess this is what peace feels like.
- I just posted a topic "do I really want to know" and I was in a good place, so last night I lost my mind and emailed my ES! not sure why when i have been silent for 6 months. I was disturbed about some new info I received as usual and no, I do not...
- My ES estranged me almost 5 years ago, in those 5 years I have written letters that were returned unopened, I have sent emails, gone to his home only to be threatened with restraining orders. Last December I sent him a box of Christmas ornaments...
- I did a very immature thing today. I was on the instant message at work chatting with someone who works for my company but in another state. She is a new young mother and was concerned about her baby because he has his 1st cold. We went back and...
- I did a very immature thing today. I was on the instant message at work chatting with someone who works for my company but in another state. She is a new young mother and was concerned about her baby because he has his 1st cold. We went back and...
- After reading the entire thread of "before you write a letter" I want to give my opinion in a new topic. I think that we have all done so many things to get our children back. We have groveled, we have begged, we have screamed and yelled at the...
- I've always been self conscious, always concerned with how I looked, how much I weighed, looking at old pictures it was ridiculous but this whole estrangement thing takes my lack of self confidence down to a whole new level. I used to be so proud of...
- When people say Happy New Year! I think about how different those word are to all of us here, our lives are sometimes consumed by what we are missing, we do not always enjoy what we have. Think about this: Who ever gets everything they want? I have...