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- I've been estranged from my ED's for 14 years. Early on in the estrangement, when there was just a smidgeon of contact, my oldest ED said something that has always stuck with me. When I asked her why she wouldn't answer my Mother's phone calls or...
- Hi all, I've been off the forum for 2 weeks while visiting with my family and friends in MO. As some of you know I have been struggling to reach a point in my estrangement with my 2 ED's that I could say "I'm done". Well, I did it! I was having...
- I've noticed the last couple of days that I cannot reply or post on the PEACE forum. None of my posts or replies are accepted. Anyone else have this problem or is it my server?
- Today is my youngest ED's 40th birthday. She wasn't conceived under ideal circumstances and the day she was born started out in anger and anxiety. My ex and I had been separated for 3 months and she was conceived shortly thereafter. We were still...
- I've been out of sorts all day. I felt tired, headachy, and sad. I thought it was because I was missing my Father who died just 2 years ago. And then it hit me this evening. Because I'm freaking pissed off that my ex is probably having a great day...
- I was curious to know if anyone has sought closure to their ongoing saga of estrangement with their EC? After 12 years, my ED's requested a meeting with me. That was 2 years ago. I was thrilled thinking that this was possible the end to the...
- I know that this will be a tough and controversial subject, but here goes.Do you think the death of your EC would be easier than this estrangement?Years ago I belonged to a different online Estrangement group that is no longer available. I posed...
- I read a lot of posts in this group and in PEACE where the members, even though they feel they are estranged, they still have contact with their "ED's". The contact might be volatile, but it is still contact. I understand that it is not the kind of...
- Up until about 3 months ago I was visiting both my ED's FB pages on a daily basis. I noticed one day that my youngest ED had stopped anyone from seeing her postings except "friends". I figured this was aimed at me, so this made the decision to stop...
- Parents Who Walk Away? I didn't walk away. They did! It was never my idea to estrange myself from my ED's, it was theirs. I just choose to give up my hope of a reconciliation. They don't seem to want to bring me back into their lives, and if they...
- I've only been on this site a few weeks, and I am wondering if my circumstances surrounding my ED's is different than most on here. My ED's have absolutely nothing to do with me. They want NO contact whatsoever! I don't live near them so I never see...
- I've only been on this site a few weeks, and I am wondering if my circumstances surrounding my ED's is different than most on here. My ED's have absolutely nothing to do with me. They want NO contact whatsoever! I don't live near them so I never see...
- I know most of us look back to when we were raising our EC and try to figure out where we went wrong. What was the one thing that you feel you went wrong when raising that child/children? I could blame it all on my ex, and I usually do, but what did...
- I know most of us look back to when we were raising our EC and try to figure out where we went wrong. What was the one thing that you feel you went wrong when raising that child/children? I could blame it all on my ex, and I usually do, but what did...
- This horrific tragedy with all of our EC's has affected each of us differently, but yet we are all the same. We are all devastated by the misguided actions and decisions that our EC's have made. We are all reacting to the our grief in a different...