It took a moment but I'm getting to "Happy" been trying to figure out how to deal with Co-parenting. Wishing the best for all three of us. Praying that God's saving graces, blesses us and guides us through.
Like a bad rash he\'s back after being gone for 3 1/2 and a half years. No support, no communications at first, then calls every now and again, empty promises for Christmas and Birthdays. Now he\'s back in town calling the house and making plans of weekend movies, hangouts and dinner. His latest gesture has been to hint to my son maybe he can come over this weekend. Two days ago I got a call from him saying that he needed me to sign or talk to a social working and let them know our son lives with him 6 months out of the year. I think the straw that broke the camels back for me was when he asked me for money to give the lady he lives with while I was trying to explain to him I had enough to get us through to my next pay. He said I know but I need to give her something....Last night he called again and I didn\'t answer because I was in the middle of working on our son\'s science project with him and quite frankly I wasn\'t in the mood for anything extra. I really REALLY don\'t want to be bothered with him. I know he\'s bringing drama. Just last week he gave me a glimpse of his attitude that took me back to when I lived with him. I also find that when I deal with him I go into the nice, passive, ready to defend mode that leaves me angry. I don\'t want to deal with this man anymore. I want to change my numbers!
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Like a bad rash he\'s back after being gone for 3 1/2 and a half years. No support, no communications at first, then calls every now and again, empty promises for Christmas and Birthdays. Now he\'s back in town calling the house and making plans of weekend movies, hangouts and dinner. His latest gesture has been to hint to my son maybe he can come over this weekend. Two days ago I got a call from him saying that he needed me to sign or talk to a social working and let them know our son lives with him 6 months out of the year. I think the straw that broke the camels back for me was when he asked me for money to give the lady he lives with while I was trying to explain to him I had enough to get us through to my next pay. He said I know but I need to give her something....Last night he called again and I didn\'t answer because I was in the middle of working on our son\'s science project with him and quite frankly I wasn\'t in the mood for anything extra. I really REALLY don\'t want to be bothered with him. I know he\'s bringing drama. Just last week he gave me a glimpse of his attitude that took me back to when I lived with him. I also find that when I deal with him I go into the nice, passive, ready to defend mode that leaves me angry. I don\'t want to deal with this man anymore. I want to change my numbers!