Wish I knew what to do

This feeling of not being able to make a decision about whether to quite my second job is driving me crazy.
The reason I got the second job was just in case, god forbid something happens to the client from my job. I feel like I should just quite, so that I can really apply myself to doing better in school. I know I cannot do this line of work for much longer, it is getting to be to physically tough. And need to do something else.
I believe the biggest reason why I can't just make the final decision is because I just don't have the faith, that everything will be ok. Paul always told me to just have faith and believe in yourself.
If anything, I was thinking if I do quite this second job, and if need be, could find another second job. This second job, has not given me the hours and I need, to make it worth doing.
I have given myself until tomorrow, to make the final decision. Just don't know what to do.

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KipB
KipB

You\'ll do the right thing. Paul was right, have faith and believe in yourself. Kip.
deleted_user
deleted_user

Paul believed in you and that should give you the confidence to believe in yourself. You will make the right decision.
deleted_user
deleted_user

Paul had faith in you and if you listen hard you will still be able to hear him. You will know the right decision. Good Luck!
Ronda
lindanne
lindanne

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lindanne
lindanne

My experience (as my husband always reminded me) is that things usually turn out much better than we expected and the worrying was a waste of time.
LSMS
LSMS

Dear Karen, Since my husband passed everyone has been telling me not to make any major decisions for a year. I\'m not sure what is behind that logic, but, I personally feel if something is pulling you down and you can do something about it, then do it. Your choices are simple as I see it, you can try to change that work situation so that is it more of what you expected, decide to bear it a little longer until you find a better option, or just quit and pursue better options for you. Trust should follow any of the decisions you make. This is a very hard time to make decisions, so if you can, give it as much time as you need. I wish you the best. Linda
Mgould
Mgould

My comment will be a little different - people don\'t always do the right thing. Take a little more time. I think you\'re coming to the Ohio GTG - if so - I\'d wait till then - when you have a group you can discuss it with. I don\'t know what your circumstances are - you talk about second job and school - but it is extremely difficult to get a second job. I have one too and for a while worked full time, part time and went to school. People tell me I should quit my 2nd job - but until I am more financially secure - no way. Best of luck.
pathoflife
pathoflife

Karen,

Mgould has a point. Why don\'t you give yourself a little more time. It\'s really hard to get any kind of job out there right now. See you in a few days. TJ