WILL IT NEVER END?!?!?!

Sat. night, 10-4-08:  Today a collection letter, from a local hospital, came in the mail for Scott.  It was very upsetting.  I returned it with a note informing them of his death and a request not to send anything here again.  We will see.  Why, after 15 1/2 months, are they sending something?  It is crazy, to me! Craig and I went to a friends house for dinner tonight.  It was nice.  We made strawberry daquiris (sp?) ate dinner, and even played a game.  It was a nice distraction. Today was just a tidy-up the house day. I didn't get real serious about it but did manage to clean the bathrooms and vacuum.  There is lots of other stuff I could've done but  I just don't care that much!   Tomorrow I just plan to take it easy.  I have some Santa's I am painting.  I began painting them last fall.  They are tedious!  It does take my mind off things, though.  And, I really want to get them done this year.They are not ceramic, but something like that.  The art teacher at school gave them to me. So, just when I think all the mail, bills, etc. are over...here they come again!  Will it ever stop?