Wife now asking for marriage counseling

You could have knocked me over with a feather when I received a text from my wife this morning. She was asking me to make an appointment for marriage counseling. An hour or so later she calls me all excited about her year end review meeting she had. I could tell she wanted to share with me. 
 
I know I'm in a vulnerable state but these seem very positive to me. There is a cynical side of me fearing she'll use the counseling to prove we should split but why does she want to share happy news with me? 

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thiscantbe
thiscantbe

That is fantastic news that she wants to start counseling!!! I am so happy for you.It is positive news!!! Keep praying, remember God hates a divorcing. If it doesn\'t work out, it\'s not God\'s fault. Prayers to you & your family. .... And believe me, if it didn\'t work out for you two, you will get hit on. Many more older single females than males. Not that you need that now, ... But you don\'t need to be alone the rest of your life, ... Unless you chose to. Smile, it\'s a good day!!!!
idontmakeherhapyenuf
idontmakeherhapyenuf

I definitely had a better day and my wife even commented on my smiling. I am still somewhat burned so there is a part of my mind worried she is only placating me because she doesn\'t want me so hurt. Even if her intentions are still focusing on an eventual divorce I see a little hope. If the therapist can get her to open up and do some self reflection combined with guidance for me to become a better match in my wife\'s mind... I can\'t help the hope. There is a part of me that knows we are meant to be together and we will overcome anything. Strange I still have that with everything I\'ve been through.
thiscantbe
thiscantbe

Stay positive, keep smiling, keep praying, leave the uncertainty behind you, ... Enjoy the moment!!! :). Hopefully, there will be many more in your future. ... Just maybe she considered all that she was losing. Have a super day!!!