Why does it get worse?
I just want to be happy. I just want things to happen in my life that are good. Sure there have to be hard times but i need those good times right now.
Me and my husband got into an argument today and I'm not sure what to think or do. He acted like he was me and txted someone to try to get sympathy from them so they'd stop cussing him out. I felt like he used me. I went to him and asked. Is there something that you need to clear with me? He said no...I said ok...maybe its a misunderstanding and walked away. He couldn't stand that.
He had me sit down and I told him and I told him I was going to tell her it wasn't me that emailed her it was him that he was under alot of stress. He went flying into a rage and screamed and yelled at me, I was scared. I picked up an empty sprite bottle...and he picked up a chair. He was yelling and I didn't know what to do, I told him to leave or i'd call the police. I'm sure the neighbors heard.
Later he broke down crying, saying he doesn't understand why he loses his temper with me and no one else. I told him because of his parents...he said it wasn't like that in his first marriage and i said you obviously have alot of anger built up (his first wife cheated on him and really left him out to dry). He is an LPN so he's afraid to talk to a therapist because of his job. I don't even know how to act toward him or what to say..
He told me not to approach him the way that I did, but I think he'd have lost it anyway. I've never had to deal with this.. I don't know what to do. He is suppose to be taking care of me, being my support, since I just got out of the hospital, but i ended up almost hurting myself this afternoon. This is all more than I can handle right now.
Me and my husband got into an argument today and I'm not sure what to think or do. He acted like he was me and txted someone to try to get sympathy from them so they'd stop cussing him out. I felt like he used me. I went to him and asked. Is there something that you need to clear with me? He said no...I said ok...maybe its a misunderstanding and walked away. He couldn't stand that.
He had me sit down and I told him and I told him I was going to tell her it wasn't me that emailed her it was him that he was under alot of stress. He went flying into a rage and screamed and yelled at me, I was scared. I picked up an empty sprite bottle...and he picked up a chair. He was yelling and I didn't know what to do, I told him to leave or i'd call the police. I'm sure the neighbors heard.
Later he broke down crying, saying he doesn't understand why he loses his temper with me and no one else. I told him because of his parents...he said it wasn't like that in his first marriage and i said you obviously have alot of anger built up (his first wife cheated on him and really left him out to dry). He is an LPN so he's afraid to talk to a therapist because of his job. I don't even know how to act toward him or what to say..
He told me not to approach him the way that I did, but I think he'd have lost it anyway. I've never had to deal with this.. I don't know what to do. He is suppose to be taking care of me, being my support, since I just got out of the hospital, but i ended up almost hurting myself this afternoon. This is all more than I can handle right now.
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