why am i here

i have been on and off this site quite  a bit, i came here originally because at the time my daughter had a dx of add adhd, and ODD and i needed help with the stress level of everything at my house. her and i butted eads constantly, anyhow i had a few issues of my own that i knew of one being i was lonely, anyhow i was on here for a while, and would talk to a few people from the loneliness thread, one decided to create a lot of drama for me, she was rather premiscous and i was accepting, then someone attacked er anonymously on the computer and i got blamed meanwhile the link to her blog was on her profile and we both blocked each other profile, so she spread horrible things about me, so i left,  i came back a few month later only to find out, this person had multiple issues with people for the same reason. 
 
so when i came back again, i was still having problems with my daughter, i joined the same groups but in all the emotions that were flaring up in me, i came to a realization of something i had made a mental block on so add in some more issues, actually this just explained alot of quirks with me, i have never trusted other guys, i have always felt more comfortable around women talking to them being around them everything, , its not cause i am a player its not cause i am trying to do anything but talk, i am a giant flirty type guy but4 harmless  and in dealing with that.  so i talked to alot of younger girls, on here from like 15 to 17 who had similar issues with my daughter, anyhow one told me she was being stalkked by an old guy like me, ha anyhow upon investigating this guy was in a diabetic group but ad all this 15 year old girls and he would make comments on their pics i contacted a few and they did seem taken back by him, so i messaged him and told him to stope i emailed the site and kept tabs on him for a few weeks til poof he was gone, anyhow immediately i got the reputation of someone who these kids could trust to help them, but it got overwhelming they were coming to me with everything, and after looking into a few the girls were being more the aggresor than the guys, so i ad enough and left,
 
now i am back again i still have the same issues, my daughter has officially been diagnosed with aspergers and i am just trying to muddle through, i feel better about things when i help people or talk to them not so much about my issues but helping them with theirs, so thats me in a nutshell.