Who Am I? / By My Standards

who am i??? i am ready to uncover myself. on one hand i want to fit into the social norms. i dont want to stick out like a sore thumb. but on what standards do i base that upon??? on the other hand, i need to uncover myself and embrace myself, and be okay. and accepted. accepted by MYSELF. be acceptable towards myself. i need to live by MY standards.. no one elses. who am i?