where does good judgement come from?
I think we go for things that are meaningful to us
I'm having the experience of wanting to go for something
meaningful in the day - I have done my chores - i have done my errands
- and my mind is urging me
to go for more meaningfulness - I have eaten tons of food (that can be meaningful in a way - but
better to not overeat - it just is one temptation I am learning not to follow) -
and I am thinking about going for a walk - but something is saying write too. Go big.
It's such a duality of wanting to go for something meaningful - and yet something
also urging me to go big.
I feel like it's how a family member has asked me to distill my experience that is an influence
and yet I can't blame him - it's the biological side of things (illness) and yet I can learn
to be wary of that temptation as well. Just feel like I make bad choices sometimes and I guess
all our choices, when we are forced to choose (in a binary way it seems) one of the other,
can't always go well. What's that phrase?? ...... Good judgement comes from experience....
where does experience come from??..... Bad judgement.
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i'll toast to the notion that good judgement comes from experience and experience comes from bad judgement. kinda runs the same line i use to ease my own fear of making mistakes. "i never lose. i either win or i learn."
that said. . .
my psycho nag flags start to waving when i start craving "big" and/or "meaningful" experiences. those would be the days i pull my most bone-headed stunts. k.i.s.s. k.i.s.s. keep it simple, shithead. a dash of humility can balance that craving nicely.
thanks arfie.
I’ve made some Baaaad decisions :o but some good ones too I think :)
… sorry I really don’t know if any of that input was needed lol
Big hugs <3
It’s all appreciated lil missy!
Just having you ‘chime in’ is a nice and welcome thing!!
Aw Marcos :) you’re so sweet <3
<3 :)