Where am I headed next?
Had a rough week last week, with lots of emotions - based on seeing the ex with his new GF, Being blown off by a seemingly wonderful online guy, seeing the OW, getting a mistaken text from the ex proclaiming his love - it was for his GF! Ok, so all that aside - I need to get through all this. That was all a big setback, but I am stronger than that, and I believe the setbacks were there to give me growth to move forward. I'm now in therapy and hoping to discover more about myself and therefore be better equipped to choose and stick with a mate or be happier alone vs. panicky.
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I\'m sorry you had such a rough week. So much hit you in one week. You\'re already working to get back to what feels normal for you. You\'ve written about your feelings and that will help. This is just a setback and you will put it behind you and move forward again. Yes setbacks happen for a reason and you are stronger than you think.
You are right, that sounds like it WAS a rough one. But look at you coping with it!! I find that when I have those terrible, no good, very bad (days) weeks, it helps to compare how you are handling it now in comparison to how that would have knocked you flat a while ago! So even in our bad times we can see the progress we have made. Good for you for acknowledging a s*&t week and moving forward confidently. Three cheers for YOU! *hugs*