when things get turned around

when things get turned around within me (and by that I mean confusing)


I'm starting to learn to remember my personal philosophy of keeping self 


responsible...of doing my chores...and also of remembering that again


the calvary isn't coming. I mean I know my family and friends support me


but ultimately it's us running our lives isn't it?


Just trying to keep on keeping on, after a conversation on the phone - again
I can't fixate I must stay the course, I must keep on keeping on.

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lilmissy7
lilmissy7

(((((Marcos)))))
Here with you amigo
Taking it one moment at a time
Tell Blue that Baby says hi :)
Big hugs <3
malibumark
malibumark

Thanks lil
Missy! I’m thinking about my friend Rich and his last journal. I am feeling overwhelmed, specifically by the way I’m reacting uncontrollably from a phone call earlier. I’m thinking about Rich and what we share here and about what I said to him. I will keep making plans, I will keep on project and make good use of my time. It may not be my best performance it may feel like out of sorts but keep on keeping on:)
lilmissy7
lilmissy7

I think you’re doing awesome Marcos, (I like what you wrote in his journal btw), you’re doing better with words than I am today to be honest …

Be gentle with you as much as you can, & try to be as kind to yourself as you are to your friends here (lol sorry I hope I don’t sounds like I’m telling you what to do) you’re just a really kind friend so I hope you can remember to have that same compassion with yourself, I feel like sometimes we are so hard on ourselves

Anyways, I’m going to lite a candle for you later
Extra hugs from me & Baby <3 <3 <3
lilmissy7
lilmissy7

:)
malibumark
malibumark

thanks lil missy!! x
arfie
arfie

in my own healing journey, i accepted that those confusing turn-arounds and pointless obsessions are just part of who and what i am. with that radical acceptance, it is far easier for me to remain independent and self-responsible, despite the corresponding mix ups of my damaged brain. another day, another mix up. . . so where was i before i got lost in me --AGAIN! ! !

you really are doing better than if feels, markus questionarius. believe in yourself. trust yourself.
you really don't need rescue from that proverbial calvary which ain't ever gonna show. you are a dynamo, just the way you are.
malibumark
malibumark

Thanks Arfie!! ☮️
SensitiveHoboLady
SensitiveHoboLady

Sending a big hug Marko!
gr8ful1
gr8ful1

Hope you're able to go on one of your beautiful walks today, Mark! Hugs!
Ladybug7
Ladybug7

As others have said, you're handling life better than you think you are, Mark. I second Susan's suggestion of a walk. Hugs, and have a great weekend!
malibumark
malibumark

thank you SO MUCH NIKKI!! SUSAN!! AND JUDY!!! I'll go for a walk when the sun goes down :). Thanks.