what if
Cooking for one makes just as big a mess as cooking for two.
What if the person who died could return to see what you are doing with your life? Would he or she like how you have been transformed? Would he be proud of you? Would she believe that her life and death brought meaning and purpose to your life? Or, would he see you dying before you are dead?
No matter how deep your grief or how anguished your soul, bereavement does not free you from your responsibility to live until you die.
Tomorrow is now. It is here. It is waiting for you. You have many choices in living the transformation that grief has brought to your life.
Right now, take a moment to close your eyes, open your heart, and remember the smile of the person in your life who has died.
Wolfelt Ph.D., Alan D. (2010-06-17). Understanding Your Grief: Ten Essential Touchstones for Finding Hope and Healing Your Heart
“Initially, you can expect great strength to do what you have to do. But then you can expect great sorrow. It will start coming in when the phones are no longer ringing and the people are no longer visiting.
What if the person who died could return to see what you are doing with your life? Would he or she like how you have been transformed? Would he be proud of you? Would she believe that her life and death brought meaning and purpose to your life? Or, would he see you dying before you are dead?
No matter how deep your grief or how anguished your soul, bereavement does not free you from your responsibility to live until you die.
Tomorrow is now. It is here. It is waiting for you. You have many choices in living the transformation that grief has brought to your life.
Right now, take a moment to close your eyes, open your heart, and remember the smile of the person in your life who has died.
Wolfelt Ph.D., Alan D. (2010-06-17). Understanding Your Grief: Ten Essential Touchstones for Finding Hope and Healing Your Heart
“Initially, you can expect great strength to do what you have to do. But then you can expect great sorrow. It will start coming in when the phones are no longer ringing and the people are no longer visiting.
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