What I get for being honest :(

Just one of the reasons I am so tormented in my marriage...  When I was in the Philippines, some of the guys from work took me too a strip club.  Well, I found out after being there, a strip club in the Philippines is basically window shopping for prostitutes.  I was stuck there (had no clue where I was and no transportation), so I sat with the guys and drank beer till the night was over. I felt guilty about it (my wife had *told* me it was OK if I went to a strip club in the past, but I had never gone to one) because I thought that crossed the line.  When I got back to the office I called her to tell her about it.  She yelled at me, we got in a fight, and we ended up hanging up on each other.  Do you know how lonely it is to be 7,000 miles from home in a strange country, and have your wife pissed off? It turns out, at the same time, she was sending her online boyfried pictures of her wearing nothing but a bra, and watching him masturbate on a webcam.  Damnit it hurts just to think about that :(  She later told me the reason she let it go to that level is that she suspected I cheated on her while I was there.  WTF...  I try to be honest, and that is what I get.