What do we dread the very worst?

Yes. The one thing most uncomfortable and embarassing but I finally got mine. I haven't had one in 85 years  (yeah ok... 20) and now I hope not for another 85 more. (Though they told me 5, but I'll take it.)

I think men and women both put this on the tail end (pun intended) of their to do lists. And though you get to drink your heart out, you'll have no desire to "play". LOL