What a Troll! Ugh, DS reply has never made me so mad
So I had posted asking if anyone had ever taken a break in a relationship and had it work still. Because you always hear that a break is the beginning of the end.
Some guy posts on there and blames all my unhappiness on me. Saying that I decided to have a family when I didn't want one, and I feel no connection to my daughter. That I gave up my job and income all on my own choice and then took on the role of maid, cook, etcetcetc willingly and it's all my fault that I don't enjoy it. That he goes out and makes hard earned money so he's faultless and I should be happy with what he does.
You know, I can take that I'm unhappy with the house wife role....because I am. And I did agree to stay at home....when Joey and I discussed it TOGETHER, I did not make the choice on my own. And I take in kids because we NEED the extra money, not because I'm missing my previous income bringing role. Plus, I didn't make the choice to have a child all on my lonesome, and I'm not virgin Mary, it didn't happen with just me....but he made it sound like I should of aborted or given Mar up for adoption since it's only my choice to have a child. Bullshit, ever been in a relationship? It's a couples choice.
What made me lose it on him was him saying I have no connection to my daughter. No connection!! I carried her for nine months, I gave birth to her, I breast fed her, I spend all day every day with her. I love her more then I thought was possible. And this asshole thinks he can say I never wanted a family and I have no connection to my daughter based off of one post?? Asking a question that has nothing to do with what sort of parent I am.
Seriously, what sort of a man says something like that? To a mother!!! I want to find him and punch him in the face. Blame my relationship problems on just me and only me, whatever, I can take that backlash....but like hell you are gonna call me on my parenting and my love for my child!
Some guy posts on there and blames all my unhappiness on me. Saying that I decided to have a family when I didn't want one, and I feel no connection to my daughter. That I gave up my job and income all on my own choice and then took on the role of maid, cook, etcetcetc willingly and it's all my fault that I don't enjoy it. That he goes out and makes hard earned money so he's faultless and I should be happy with what he does.
You know, I can take that I'm unhappy with the house wife role....because I am. And I did agree to stay at home....when Joey and I discussed it TOGETHER, I did not make the choice on my own. And I take in kids because we NEED the extra money, not because I'm missing my previous income bringing role. Plus, I didn't make the choice to have a child all on my lonesome, and I'm not virgin Mary, it didn't happen with just me....but he made it sound like I should of aborted or given Mar up for adoption since it's only my choice to have a child. Bullshit, ever been in a relationship? It's a couples choice.
What made me lose it on him was him saying I have no connection to my daughter. No connection!! I carried her for nine months, I gave birth to her, I breast fed her, I spend all day every day with her. I love her more then I thought was possible. And this asshole thinks he can say I never wanted a family and I have no connection to my daughter based off of one post?? Asking a question that has nothing to do with what sort of parent I am.
Seriously, what sort of a man says something like that? To a mother!!! I want to find him and punch him in the face. Blame my relationship problems on just me and only me, whatever, I can take that backlash....but like hell you are gonna call me on my parenting and my love for my child!
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You know what? Trolls are on here to create trouble. Let\'s wish him a giant stubbed Big TOE....you know why? it hurts like hell, and doesn\'t kill them and makes them jump around like the fools they are.
Trolls go out to try to make trouble (usually only on the sites, not in journals as much, maybe you should make yours only open to friends) so that they can enjoy the carnage, and make themselves feel better about their bitter, sad, sickened, weak spirited life.
SO, a big raspberry \"Phtttttttt!\" to him. Maybe his mom doesn\'t love him and that is why he attacks other moms....I am sure she would not approve of his behavior! And thank GOD you don\'t have to be married to him! or have Christmas dinner with him! Freedom from Trolls!
lol I do lock the journals I don\'t want people to see. But generally I figure if it\'s entertaining for others then they can go hard and read away :)
lol thanks for the reference of kicking his naughty bits into his stupid bits....made my night :)