Well... I knew I was right... so, why did I even bother?

My Mom never responded to by text about watching my boys for 2hr... 3hrs at the most (which it usually if she ever did was closer to 90min... to 2 hrs. she has only watched my older one 4 times in 4 years and my younger one... never) but, my best friend offered even before I even thought about asking.... I had mentioned that I have  gift card for my favorite sushi place & she said let me know if you want to go Monday... So, i'll have her daughter the 25th of this month and the 3rd of the next month... I love that we switch babysitting days so that we both have "mommy time" or "date night. so, it's nice... I gave her a 5hr babysitting time yesterday but, her hubby messed up and took her to a place she hated and it wound up being full of his co-workers all drinking beer. So, she sat 5 chairs over texting me all night. Going to give her another "mommy day" so, she can relax since her hubby clearly had that planned. ugh! My hubby would never do that... ugh... and on a valentine's date. not good. But, yeah... my Mom is still on my "ugh" list.... christina is my bff savior!

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Thank goodness for bff\'s! We would ask my MIL a month in advance to watch my son...and she\'d make it very clear that if her daughter needed her on that same day (for absolutely any reason) she would have to cancel on us....even if it was last minute. I finally just stopped asking.