Wedding week
This was going to be the week of our wedding. It has been 28 days since she went to heaven. The bridal shop was nice enough to give us her dress for the funeral. Nothing worst than seeing your bride in her dress in a coffin. She looked so beautiful and breaks my heart that I wont get see her walk the aisle into my arms. We spent much of the last getting ready for our big day. I am glad we did all the marriage prep that church wanted. It really brought us closer together as couple. It so hard because we were so excited to make it official in the eyes of law and under God. Catie is my soul mate and I consider her my wife. I feel like I have the ground removed from beneath me. Getting married to her was going to be one the greatest days of my life. I use our happy memories as strength but it is still so hard. I have a photo of her in her wedding dress and she is so beautiful. Ill never understand why this had happen. Maybe one day will make sense but right now as the day gets closer it really hurts. I know she is with me and Ill try to stay strong for myself and her.
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Oh my. I\'m so so sorry. I\'m sure her beauty also reflected her loving heart. I too consider her your wife. You had made that commitment together and before God. I\'m sad that you didn\'t get the wedding day to affirm it before others. As for staying strong, in my view it\'s overrated. Just get through each day was my aim. That takes strength enough. Hugs for you and Catie. Sandy
I have no words to make you feel better. All I can do is say I\'m so very sorry for your loss.
Prayers and hugs,
Janie
She may not be physically here, but your love will continue throughout eternity. I know this will be a hard week, but we will make it through together. Sharon