We are human beings. Don't be guilty.

Our loved ones would never want us to feel guilty about anything.  Those who have passed on only want the best for us.  Your partner/spouse/mother/father/family memeber or friend will always be with you in spirit but we need human touch.  God made us that way.  To have companionship.  Our hearts are healing but that doesn't mean we can't be interested in someone else.  We are people persons who need other people.  If someone can make you smile, they are worth one in a million and is a good thing.  Don't let anyone tell you waht to do either.  They are not in your situation.  They don't know your true inner self.  Only you know what is best for you.  We can wonder if it is too soon but things happen when they happen which we have no control over in our lives.  Sleep soundly, enjoy the day or night, exercise, eat healthy and enjoy those that are in your lives now.  We are normal men and women.  We have normal needs.  Our loved ones who have passed on only want the best for us and we are never alone.  We have to take one day at a time to stop and smell the roses and realize what a good day it really is for us.   We honor those that have gone on before us by living each day to the fullest with much joy and happiness.  I know my Smokey would not want me to be sad, cry or mourn for the rest of my life.  It would make him really angry if I did that but what would make him smile is me carrying out my life to the fullest and enjoying every minute of it without any guilt or shame.  Guilt robs you have any happiness and joy.  It is a real cruel emotion.   Guilt harms each individual and steals our own personal happiness in our lives.   To honor those that have gone before us, let us live our lives to the fullest.