We are both mad.

I asked him today to take the OW of his e-mail acct. and that went bad. He says he is doing everything in his power to make things better and I just keep bring things up cause I don't trust him. Then i get upset because of course he said he would do anything to make this work and get me back. I know I have not right to control anyone's e-mail acct. but considering the situation I feel I have the right to ask this little thing from him. We tried to talk it over but got no where. Then I asked him when he was going to put his clothes back in the dresser because he has one bag of clothes here after I kicked him out. He's reply was when he feels more secure. That broke my heart because if he wanted to be here then he wouldn't say that. I should be the one with some leverage not him. He shouldn't be the one who feels insecure.