Ways F controlled me

He always insisted on driving.  Everywhere.  Even if I was going to get my hair done, he'd pack up the kids and drive around for an hour or two.  
He always handled my business for the kids and me.  He insisted on making the phone calls, because heaven forbid I say the wrong thing or forget to mention something- basically, I was too incompetent to handle anything
No matter where we were going, even if it was my idea, we had to leave right away.  I was always being rushed around, regardless of whether or not we had to be there at a certain time.  
He hid our finances from me- I spent a good portion of my inheritance fixing his credit issues, many of which were from before we'd even met- and yet, he didn't feel it necessary to share his money with the kids and I.  
He cancelled our guitar lessons when he saw I was getting better than him
He always made me feel I was in the way- always telling me to move, let people through- can't they wait?  Can't I buckle my baby in properly?  Always admonished in public.  Always treated like a child.