wants to just disappear

been really down in the dumps lately but putting on the happy face.  seems everyeone is against me that is close to me, but anyone from the outside sees that my situation is better controled my way and not how its being handled.  my daughter with aspergers is manipulating situtions i try to teach her i get told leave me alone but her and by everyoen else.  her counselor tells her the same thing i did and everyone says that its about time someone tries to sit down with her and explain it.  that is all i ever try to do, she just chooses not to listen to me, so it starts out into an arguement and then she goes into a tantrum.  so i built a MAN Cave years ago, my world in the basement. and i am choosing to stay in it for a while and not come out but to go to work. and get my coffee. not going to talk to or associate with anyone just come on here and sulk and try and feel better, 
 
the meds i am taking were taking the edge off of things but it seems the depression is growing fast due to my situation and i dont know how to handle it, i have been a very independant person all my life, but finding this situation to be one i need help with.  and i have no where to turn