very angry

I told my roommates before they moved in that I do not want to date anyone my husbands death is still fresh he only died in April 2013. Still going though a lot of legal stuff that I am not happy in doing. I don't know who I am angry at the most the stupid roommates or the act that I am a widow. I still love my husband with all of my heart and it is a disgrace for her to even say that to me.