Vegas Trip...
Every year my wife goes to visit her family in Utah. She's gone for about 3 weeks. And she does take the kids with her while I stay and put in some extra time at work. Its way easier to work OT when no one is at home.
I've found out that in past years (the cheating years) she's called these OM and talked with them for hours at night while in Utah. And never had time to talk with me as she was "busy with family fun". Once I found out about all the free time she'd been having, I was pissed to say the least. This year she's promised that all that is done and in the past. I'm trusting that all this is going to be okay. I don't check the phones anymore.
Anyway. This year my brother and brother-in-law and I are going to Vegas for the weekend. She's now concerned that I will be doing the cheating while there. Hahahaha! LMAO!!!! How does that feel!?!?! A bit vindictive don't you think.
We're going to have a blast hangin out at the pool and the bars and the blackjack tables. A guys innocent weekend. I'll login while there and update this journal item...
Wish us luck!!!
I've found out that in past years (the cheating years) she's called these OM and talked with them for hours at night while in Utah. And never had time to talk with me as she was "busy with family fun". Once I found out about all the free time she'd been having, I was pissed to say the least. This year she's promised that all that is done and in the past. I'm trusting that all this is going to be okay. I don't check the phones anymore.
Anyway. This year my brother and brother-in-law and I are going to Vegas for the weekend. She's now concerned that I will be doing the cheating while there. Hahahaha! LMAO!!!! How does that feel!?!?! A bit vindictive don't you think.
We're going to have a blast hangin out at the pool and the bars and the blackjack tables. A guys innocent weekend. I'll login while there and update this journal item...
Wish us luck!!!
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What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas... LOL. Just kidding!!!
I have to laugh because I am sort of in the same situation, my H is now worried about what I am doing while he has been away living apart from us in NJ. He\'s on his way back as I type this. The last time he came home for a visit, he took my cell phone and was looking through it. I have nothing to hide so I didn\'t care. But it just makes me laugh that they worry about we are doing and we didn\'t even start this stupid mess. I suppose every time he called me I was out having fun with the neighborhood and therefore he was just feeling like I was out having a revolving party, but that really wasn\'t the case at all. I wasn\'t going to just sit around in the house either and pine away for him to come home. I enjoyed the time I had to stay out later at the bonfires and talk and laugh with the neighborhood folks. It was fun. Usually when he\'s home, he doesn\'t like to stay out there late with them and we always come in around 9:00 at night and just go to bed to sleep. So, he\'s coming back now and life will go back to the way it was.
Thanks for the reply. Sorry it took so long to reply back, I just noticed you commented on it.
I think (hopefully) when he wants to leave the bonfire, you tell him goodnight and stay as long as you\'d like. It\'s part of the 180 attitude I am trying out. Do what makes YOU happy. And do what you have as a priority in your day, week, month, year. Yes it will include him and yes you will do things for him in your list, but those will be things that you want to do for him. Not things he demands of you. Don\'t drop your list of happiness for his. Hopefully you can mix both together, but do your own thing. You will see an amazing change in him. His attention to what you\'re up to. And he will appreciate you way more (California Accent - haha). Try it, I promise you\'ll like it. You will get \"YOU\" back.
By the way, vegas was really funnnnnnnnn!!!!!!