Update

A couple new updates.  My doctor's assistant finally called to tell me that the lymph node in my neck is swollen and that it is benign.  Then began the run around with trying to get my records switched from my old doctor to my new one.  I swear it was so trying for some reason I kept getting people who had no idea what to do in order to get my records switched over either that or they told me the wrong information.  It took weeks.  Finally my new doctor got my records and ordered some bloodwork.  Of course no one called me the only reason I found out was because I called to see if they had my records had been sent over yet and then they told me.  I had to move my appointment to the 15th because it was taking so long.  So I went and got my blood drawn and today I get a call apparently I have mild anemia.  They also ordered some more bloodwork to try to narrow down why.  I wonder if it is because my periods have gotten very heavy.  I wouldn't be as worried if it weren't for the swollen lymph node on the left side of my neck and I was feeling the one on my right side and it felt a bit swollen as well not as much but more then it should.  So now I am very concerned it could be something serious.  Because of course of the many causes of anemia one of the one's listed is my big fear.  I know there are many other reasons but my mind tends to have a very narrow focus.  Plus I am totally stressed out due to my state basically being shut down and having the kids home all day with a million zoom meetings to manage and my eldest is doing really poorly this year and is unwilling to change anything because he always tells me he's got it handled but his grades seem to say otherwise.  So it just seems to be stress upon stress upon stress with everything that is going on right now it is all overwhelming.  

I will update when i have more information.  

God please help me.  Help my eldest to turn the corner with his academics and help us all in the coming months.  thank you