Treated like S**t
Eric's yelling at me about socks. His granda had me buy junk food for her(with her money). I'm the only one out of us that isn't lazy! I want Eric to grow up and take care of himself! I've tried talking to him about it but he just throws a big fit and that's on of my triggers.
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Eric is old enough to do his own wash.
Just tell him :you yelled at me yesterday: so you can be Responsible for Your Socks.
"Im not going to tollerate you yelling at me anymore, I'm going to go out in the car...if you go to your room, he won't leave you alone until he breaks you. Go to the library, volunteer somewhere....just get out of the house so you aren't with them 24/7 and they 'might' begin to appreciate all you do, or they will bitch and moan ab0ut you leaving...just say 'I want a life"
Jenn it's way beyond time that you make some boundaries of what you will accept and what you won't. You'll need to be strong and not give in. keep an even voice and just say you are done with???? and you are both capable of doing these things...I'm Not Doing Them Anymore!
Be aware they will test you left and right, you Can't Give In....to avoid conflict with them Jenn is you Letting Them Make You a Door Matt. Let Eric throw his fits....just get into the car and go somewhere. If Erics granda want junk food and you are not paying for it...just buy it...doesn't mean you and Eric have to eat junk.
Everything starts with you Jenn, even doing baby steps is moving forward cause it will build up your strength to do another thing....confidence!! Hang in there my friend....keep writing for the support you need...people care.