Toxic Friends

Ugh, I have this friend who is pregnant and she keeps coming to me to complain about her pregnancy.  She has extremely mild GD - no need for insulin, completely controlled by diet.  She had it last pregnancy as well and her little boy was born without any problems.  She keeps telling me that she understand how I feel to see other pregnant women because she gets jealous seeing pregnant women eating candy bars.  Really?  Losing your son is the same as not being able to eat candy bars? 
She also keeps complaining about having to go to the doctor because she feels like they are tough on her about eating right and she is just so sick of how negative these appointments feel.  I would give anything to have an appointment like that.  Until you have heard the words your baby is dead or your baby is going to die, you have no idea what a negative appointment is!
Ok, enough of my tirade.  Thanks for letting me vent.
I really do feel like I am doing a bit better, but I find when toxic people like this start in on me, I go right back to that angry, jealous, sad place and I just don't want to go there.  I am trying so hard to figure out how to honor my sweet Isaiah's life while still trying to be hopeful and slowly move forward.   Its amazing how quickly I can be brought down.  I don't want to be rude or intentionally lose friends, but I am finding that there are some people I have to distance myself from to keep the sanity I am trying so hard to hold on to.