TOTAL Meltdown

July 2, 2011:  Went to the cemetery today to put a 4th of July pinwheel by Scott's grave.  Caretaker's took almost ALL his flowers and other things away.  :(  They even took a handmade wooden cross away!  I just lost it. 
And, next to Scott is his Grandma.  They did the same thing to her "stuff".  Really?  After four/five years? 
Anyway, I totally lost it.  Stupid "stuff".  But, it is not their stuff, their meaning, their emotion.... 
So sad.  :(