To all my friends......

I'm sorry for being away so long. I thought the "really bad days" were behind me. But, in reality, those "bad days" seem to come back all too fast when life throws a curve at me. My dog, Bigby, passed on September 18th. He was my "best bud" and he was always there for me. 

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deleted_user
deleted_user

hi,
So sorry you went through that.... I know that can be very hard. Hope you are doing better. Hugs
genebh
genebh

Pets are family. Sara & I know the losses of multiple pets and feel for you. We dread losing the possibility of losing Boomer or Patty, as you Know, they are Irreplacable.
Jonesen
Jonesen

So sorry about your buddy hun.
deleted_user
deleted_user

I am sorry for your loss. I have my brother\'s dog now and honestly do not know how I would have made it through some days without her. A pet is as close to family as you can get without begin human, but they sure act better than some family members, right? Not that I am one to take advice, but I sure can give it, I would like to suggest writing memories down of your time together. Cry and laugh and then cry again. I will be thinking of you.
deleted_user
deleted_user

Oh Sweetie! I so understand what you are going through! Our beloved LhasaPoo, Mandy, died just 6 months after Jamie, ...she was my comfort and constant companion and I felt I could never have another pet and that everything and everyone I loved I would lose! I am sorry you have had to go through this! I don\'t know if you believe in this or not--but here goes,...Many \"comes to me\" sometimes during the nights, she will scratch on my side of the bed and I know it is her because of her \"bling\" on her tags. It always seems to be to comfort me,...if I had a bad day over Jamie,...or when my sister died, there were a couple of nights then. Love never dies, my friend! Try to hold on to that! I didn\'t ever want another pet, but Toby (on my avatar) chose us and now he is my \"little man\" and adored by all. We all have so much love inside of us to give, you will know when the time is right for you,...or God will drop something to love right in your lap (like it happened to us) God Bless you! Tight, tight hugs! Judy
deleted_user
deleted_user

No sorries are needed! I know what you\'re going through and it\'s awful, I know. Hopefully you will find some peace knowing you\'re not alone. You WILL get through this!

Many hugs!