Thursday update
Things going pretty well - wrote a long entry yesterday but it never got through!! Hate when that happens. Well, I ended up having lunch and dinner both out yesterday with two different friends. In summary - friend #1 for lunch was previous gambling buddy. She was surprised when I told her I have stopped... she was very supportive and she hasn't played either due to $$, but I think she was hoping I would hop in and out and that we could still have fun going once in a while.... that would be a no. Dinner friend #2 - also very supportive; we had a discussion about the understanding of addiction - she had always compared me to one of her other friends who loves to play the slots, but interesting - she now labels her a "controlled gambler" - if there is such a thing... not for me. So.. we also talked about her compulsive eating - and how even though she doesn't WANT to control it, she must for various obvious reasons. She said she hates to see me give up something that I love to do so much. :] oh well. That was it - we are having some cutbacks at work, so quitting gambling is the BEST thing for that reason as well. Take care everyone,Smokeygirl
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