this round goes to me!!!
yes I am in the power seat for once. I love it here!. Throughout this whole thing I have felt like I have been knocked down. It's about time I get back in the drivers seat. Watch out bubba, I am coming for you!!! Get out of my way!
I talked to our counselor and just let him know few little facts bout the ex. His talk of suicide, and the poor me attitude. He labeled him as a "drama king". I like that title. it fits him to a t. He's going to have his hands full in counseling. But I have no doubt who will win there!!
I talked to our counselor and just let him know few little facts bout the ex. His talk of suicide, and the poor me attitude. He labeled him as a "drama king". I like that title. it fits him to a t. He's going to have his hands full in counseling. But I have no doubt who will win there!!
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Counseling has NOTHING TO DO WITH winning or losing. Your stbx will only get out of it what he puts into it and a good MARITAL COUNSELOR will quickly be able to sort out the truth from any b.s. that flies around.
Once you begin to take your power back in a situation or a relationship, the whole paradigm will shift. It can go in any one of a number of different directions, but if you keep in mind that YOU WILL NO LONGERT TOLERATE BEING BULLIED OR PUSHED AROUND (emotionally or physically) standing up for yourself was the DEFINING MOMENT OF YOUR LIFE!
Stay strong, my dear. You\'ve got what it takes to make it through this and thrive in a wonderful New Life!