thinking of my freinds

Hi everyone, I have not felt the best this week.  My hands and legs have been really hurting.  Don't know if its arthritis or neuropathy. All I know is it hurts.  My hands have been swollen and red. But I know you don't want to hear this junk.  Not when so many of you are hurting.
Well,  my daughter has allowed her husband back in the house.  The counselor told her that if she and her husband were willing to work on their marriage that he should be back in the home. He also told her husband that it was up to him to get Lisa to trust him again.  They  are going to continue with the sessons. She is willing to work thru this because he is so repentant.  I am staying out of this for her sake.  I personally don't want to see his face or have anything to do with him.
I know when a child is involved that has to be part of her decision. I know Mallory is happy about her Daddy being home. Now if I can just learn to look at him again! YUK
Have a good week everyone,  God bless each of you,
Wanda   
  

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bgoodwin44
bgoodwin44

Hi There,

You Will Be In My Prayers..

Hope, You Get To Feeling, BETTER...

Happy Valentine\'s Day, TOO !

Love Ya, Barbara
perplexed46
perplexed46

Wanda, Hope you start feeling better soon! I pray that things will start looking up for your daughter & son-in-law!

Love & hugs,
Lois
txkiki53
txkiki53

Wanda, many many prayers that you feel better soon. Also prayers for your daughter and the decsions that she makes, strenght to all. As you know I have been there done that... If it is meant to be it will work out, it is in God\'s hands. luv to ya, Annette
tmcgraw
tmcgraw

Wanda ,
I would have a hard time looking at him too. but he would have a tougher time looking at me .I would put the fear of Pam in him.LOL !
My daughter and Josh broke up and it is so hard because his health is so awful right now . His kidneys, blood pressure ...I take him for labs tomorrow.
It is hard trying to do the \" christain thing \" I said I would take him and i will. My daughter is not doing well with the break up at all . Sorry rambling about my problems on your thread .

The neuroapathy I saw where they said B vitamins help that B 12 check with your DR. if you are able to take it . I always try vitamins first .

I have arthritis also and it stinks ! Spring is on it\'s way all the beauty to look forward too. Love Pam
meriel
meriel

Wanda honey, so sorry you\'re feeling so rubbish and sore. It\'s not junk, everything\'s relative, and it\'s not what you need right now.
Re the son-in-law, hmmm, lets all hope and pray that it will go well. It can do, even after infidelity, and maybe they\'ll be the exception. Annette says it well - if it\'s meant to be.....
Praying for you to have a little peace and comfort right now
all my love, Meriel
msgrace
msgrace

Sorry you are not feeling well, Sweetie. Hang in there, and only time will tell if things will work out between your precious daughter and the rat. lol
wanda61
wanda61

Thanks everyone, the rat Ingrid is a good name! I think I will call him snake. Lisa told me last night that she didn\'t know how we can get back to the way things were, meaning me and Steve and them. I told her to just keep him away for a while. She needs to find out if THEY can put things back the way they were! Thanks for letting me vent everyone, love you all
LSMS
LSMS

Dear Wanda, I\'m sorry that you are having troubles with your hands and legs. (since we\'ve just communicated, I am feeling better about your health). I think you are doing the right thing to stay back a bit from your daughter\'s situation once she has made her decision to bring him back...In time, if it works out, I\'m sure you\'ll be able to face him. First things first, so don\'t worry about it right now. Take care of yourself Wanda....Love, Linda
deleted_user
deleted_user

Wanda, hope you feel better soon. for your daughter & granddaughter try to forgive your son-inlaw.
Hugs&Prayers,Donna
ellsworth007
ellsworth007

Wanda, oh no this is truly a difficult situation.She might be able to be more objective with them back together and lessemotional . She will not forget his behavior . She will become stronger and less likely to see him through rose colored glasses. Hope you feel better soon ...and your not complaining just telling us the truth so we can support you like you support us. Gail :)
Angelpuss
Angelpuss

Dearest Wanda,
You\'re not complaining because you never do. You\'re entitled to a good vent here and it will help you to bite your tongue.Lololol You know I think the same as you.
Sweet Ingrid has sent me off to bed with a smile on my face.from reading her comment.
Just know that your many friends are here and giving you and Steve their support as you have always given yours.
Love you, sweetie Keeping you and Steve in my heart and thoughts.
deleted_user
deleted_user

Hi Dear Wanda,

i know i haven\'t been around to much because of computer problems so i am not up to date with what has happened with your daughter and husband.. I am also so sorry that you are in pain, this i can relate to as my right knee has been acting up so i am seeing an Orthopedic today and Tim has tio drive me there.. I can barely walk in the norning when i get up Tim has to help me get around but fortunately it loosens up later morning and i get around better.. I understand the pain that you are having and it\'s ok to always let all of us know how you feel, you are a very big part of all of us and when you don\'t feel good let us know we all care for you very much and i espeially do we do have alot in commom dealing with this disease our spouses have and you mean the world to me.. Please take care and write anytime i would love to hear from you..

Much love,
Becca
deleted_user
deleted_user

Thinking of you Wanda and im sorry youre in pain hope you feel better soon xoxoxo