Things will never be the way they once were
I can't believe it has been a year and 4 months since my last journal entry and nothing has changed for the better. My relationship with my dear sister is totally dashed on jagged rocks. We will not be close like we once were. Everyday, and I mean it, everyday she has a complaint about something I have said or done. According to her, I always hurt her feelings or look at her "the wrong way" or use "the wrong tone" with her.
I don't know why she feels I need to treat her like she is my mother! Her own daughter does not listen to her half the time. And she is my younger sister whom I have supported all my life. There is no one to support me. NO ONE!
She boldly told me today that she has never filed for unemployment. I asked her why is that. She first said because she worked and she had mom and dad. I waited for more. Then she added "and you." I said that's right!
All my savings are gone. I have emotionally, physically, spiritually and financially supported her all my life. And she still thinks I owe her something!
She is either narcissistic or just plain bitchy or both!
I have to move. No doubt. I have got to move to another state!
I don't know why she feels I need to treat her like she is my mother! Her own daughter does not listen to her half the time. And she is my younger sister whom I have supported all my life. There is no one to support me. NO ONE!
She boldly told me today that she has never filed for unemployment. I asked her why is that. She first said because she worked and she had mom and dad. I waited for more. Then she added "and you." I said that's right!
All my savings are gone. I have emotionally, physically, spiritually and financially supported her all my life. And she still thinks I owe her something!
She is either narcissistic or just plain bitchy or both!
I have to move. No doubt. I have got to move to another state!
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