Things really change
Alright, I haven't written in a long time. And boy have things really changed. I haven't written in awhile because I was been dealing with alot of heavy stuff!!
One of my brother's were arrested for having some pretty awful things on his computer, that his wife has found. He has since been released from jail but is now on the offender list.
It has taken me a long time to process thru all of it. I can't even say that I have come to full terms with this. It's so horrible and awful.
The "drama" has ended up tearing my family apart. My husband and I have gone one way over it and my family has gone the other way. Because once this discovery was made it has recently come out that the same brother has a serve problem and he has hurt children in a similar matter as to what was found on his computer, including his own children and one of my younger brothers possibly both.
My husband and I want this to be dealt with and stopped. My family and now his wife, thinks it's best to act as if nothing has ever happened. That won't stop him from hurting further children.
His children are no longer in his home. thank goodness!! but that doesn't stop harm from hurting other children.
One brother has gone to the police about what happened to him when he was a child. But no charges were made there wasn't a strong enough case.
Anyhow since my family has decided denial is the best route. They have stopped talking to my husband and I, and have kicked out the 18 year old who went to the police.
Not only has my family stopped talking to us, they have decided to start spreading lies about my husband and I. To try and start casting doubt on us.
I should explain my family used to be close and we used to do many things together. Now they don't even talk to us. I would like to say because my husband and I are doing the right thing that it isn't that hard not talking to my family anymore. But this isn't ture. I keep going thru cycles and sometimes especially around holidays, things are really tough.
I find that I'm always complaining about this to my friends and hubby. I've become withdrawn and it's all I ever talk about.
It's to the point where my hubby and friends, try to avoid the topic all together because they are so tired of hearing about it. My hubby does whatever he can to avoid me all together.
I don't know how to get past this and move forward!! Can this even be something to get over!!
One of my brother's were arrested for having some pretty awful things on his computer, that his wife has found. He has since been released from jail but is now on the offender list.
It has taken me a long time to process thru all of it. I can't even say that I have come to full terms with this. It's so horrible and awful.
The "drama" has ended up tearing my family apart. My husband and I have gone one way over it and my family has gone the other way. Because once this discovery was made it has recently come out that the same brother has a serve problem and he has hurt children in a similar matter as to what was found on his computer, including his own children and one of my younger brothers possibly both.
My husband and I want this to be dealt with and stopped. My family and now his wife, thinks it's best to act as if nothing has ever happened. That won't stop him from hurting further children.
His children are no longer in his home. thank goodness!! but that doesn't stop harm from hurting other children.
One brother has gone to the police about what happened to him when he was a child. But no charges were made there wasn't a strong enough case.
Anyhow since my family has decided denial is the best route. They have stopped talking to my husband and I, and have kicked out the 18 year old who went to the police.
Not only has my family stopped talking to us, they have decided to start spreading lies about my husband and I. To try and start casting doubt on us.
I should explain my family used to be close and we used to do many things together. Now they don't even talk to us. I would like to say because my husband and I are doing the right thing that it isn't that hard not talking to my family anymore. But this isn't ture. I keep going thru cycles and sometimes especially around holidays, things are really tough.
I find that I'm always complaining about this to my friends and hubby. I've become withdrawn and it's all I ever talk about.
It's to the point where my hubby and friends, try to avoid the topic all together because they are so tired of hearing about it. My hubby does whatever he can to avoid me all together.
I don't know how to get past this and move forward!! Can this even be something to get over!!
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