the idea for the night...
if we feel needy at times...and that's not even a fair way to start this..
when we have needs to talk to someone or to be soothed or have some
sorely needed companionship or attention...
sometimes, we just gotta give ourselves the attention we need...
and that's totally ok :)
I'm setting about my usual bedtime routine and though
I feel mixed up or really not with a sense of usualness about
the night time - I am going to remember what helps me sleep
and set about that.. Thank goodness, thanks god, for routines
that work! :)
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Sleep well, Mark!
I hope you will have slept well by the time you read this.
It’s true that some people have no problems being alone while others are totally social beings that need more. I try and think about it in terms of personality and what makes us tick individually rather than try and beat ourselves up over being more « this way » or « that way »
Surely there’s more psychological stuff at hand like codependency or on the other spectrum, isolation……but I think it’s pretty normal to wish we had more of the other end when we find ourselves in these questioning moments. That’s a pretty human experience we all share….
Ahhhh the highs and lows of it all. I guess life would be boring if it were perfectly balanced, nest-ce pas?
Thanks Ladybug and Nikki!