The divorce moves forward

Stbx and I have a mediator now.  We're trying to reach an agreement without having to have separate lawyers and going through the entire battle at each other's throat thing.  So far things look very promising.
She's got a place picked out to live, and we are in the process of discussion of how we will divide up our possessions.  No major arguments.  Emotionally, I'm not doing particularly great with it, but it will probably be for the best in the long run.
Sigh.