The boyfriend....
Well I am still with him. I thought about breaking up with him for the 13 time but couldn't do it over the weekend. I am not ready. Being new to this codependency thing I need a bit more information and support and help before I break up AGAIN. I need to know for sure this time I can get through it without all those feelings of heartbreak, stalking him, thinking I love him, wondering what he is doing, who he is seeing. Next time will be the final time I know its not fair to keep him hanging but I need to think about me and how I am doing this time. YES it needs to be about ME! I am feeling POSITIVE today!
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Take your time. Do it when you are ready. Yes it sucks hurting him but you are learning about yourself and I think you should do it when you feel you are able to. Just remember that even when you are ready it will probably still be hard. You will still miss him and have moments where you wonder who he is with and you will wonder if you made a mistake etc but those will all be normal feelings. Don\'t think because it happens that you wont still be okay
Thanks Pinkrose! I know it will still be painful but this time needs to be the last as I can\'t keep going back and forth. I will wait till I\'m ready.