The boy needs to pack his room
Okay I'm moved except for the boy, who is having hard time..He really needs to do this himself so he will have some closure..This is like pulling teeth, he just can't get going.. Well, we will get it done on Monday... I wish I could make this whole situation go away for him, but it's real and he ahs to learn to deal. I will give him alot of support.. Hope he can get thru thru this.. As for me, I'm done except computer and big TV. I will take animals tommorow, hope they adjust Ok.. About me I'm freaking out as the cancer on my lip is back and will require surgery. Also spots on my back and above my eybrow will have to be addressed with MOHS. Hoping for disabiltiy, as I am not dealing as well as I would like. I'm feeling like I'm so disfigured.. I wish I could explain maybe I can get a picture up that shows how bad it really is..I tried but I can't bring myself to post a picture..I look like crap!!! My so called support says just don't get surgery.. it won't kill you.. They just don't get it.. My Mom had a couple of spots frozen off but they were not cancerous, just a spot, she tries so hard to compare what I have to what she has,,, What the HELL is this a competition.. Ignorance is not bliss, and makes me so angry.. I thnk I'll go cry!!!! They just don't get it....Fudge Fudge!!!!!
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Sorry you are going through such a hard time. It stinks to have to move with all of this going on. You are in my prayers.
I can relate to your mother telling you the solution. They have good intentions, but they can\'t fix most things and they don\'t always want to understand or listen. They just want to tell us how to make it all go away.
They do love us in ways that are not always helpful.
Godspeed.
Moving is the most stressful life event for most everyone. Death of a loved one is second. Just relax as much as you can and keep helping the boy. I think you\'ve done A LOT, since all you have left is a couple of things plus your pets. Wow!
i really feel you,but let me say this...almost 5 years ago..i had uterine cancer,,and everyone kept telling me the same no problem the doctors do this every day..or it will be fine..it\'s nothing all this mostly from my Mom.but while i was in the surgery my Mom was out side freaking and crying,she was telling me what ever she could to get me through and not to be scared and this sept it will be 5 years for me.an dnow my Mom isnt here to get me through another bad dream..so beleive me...they are just as scared as you,so hang in there i wont sugar coat anything for u just plane honesty.so if u need some one to talk ot,i am here and btw,i have had 4 other surgeries as a child all for cancer.so in reality..it can be in remission...garna
I am here for you sweetie and I care. I am sorry to hear that. I am also praying for you and keeping you in my thoughts. Teresa
I\'m moving soon to.which hate as well.except for me the only who will have a hard time missy my baby kitty,simone dosen\'t mind at except she found the male cat upstair and I think she\'ll miss him she meow at him...good on your move & smoochie to all your baby pet.peggi