The boy needs to pack his room

Okay I'm moved except for the boy, who is having hard time..He really needs to do this himself so he will have some closure..This is like pulling teeth, he just can't get going.. Well, we will get it done on Monday... I wish I could  make this whole situation go away for him, but it's real and he ahs to learn to deal. I will give him alot of support.. Hope he can get thru thru this.. As for me, I'm done except computer and big TV. I will take animals tommorow, hope they adjust Ok.. About me I'm freaking out as the cancer on my lip is back and will require surgery. Also  spots on my back and above my eybrow will have to be addressed with MOHS. Hoping for disabiltiy, as I am not dealing as well as I would like. I'm feeling like I'm so disfigured.. I wish I could explain maybe I can get a picture up that shows how bad it really is..I tried but I can't bring myself to post a picture..I look like crap!!! My so called support says just don't get surgery.. it won't kill you.. They just don't get it.. My Mom had a couple of spots frozen off but they were not cancerous, just a  spot, she tries so hard to compare what I have to what she has,,, What the HELL is this a competition.. Ignorance is not bliss, and makes me so angry.. I thnk I'll go cry!!!! They just don't get it....Fudge Fudge!!!!!