Tested?

So my husband and I have had our problems with my sexuality but out of the blue he started supporting it and likening it. He suggested a three way, I can't spell the formal French word :) I felt iffy on this being married n all I even posted about it in the support group to see how other relationships have played out from this. About two weeks into this I went to a bible study, yes it's complicated but I love the bible:) and decided against the threesome and my husband says good I would ve left you if it did happen. I feel crushed he was testing me this whole time? :( he is a great guy he really is but how can a man do that to his wife? :-( he took me to a local resturant called the tilted kilt, in case y'all r wondering its a place where the waitresses are smoking hott ware short kilts and a plaid push up bra w a white wrap cover up that ends at the bottom of the bra. He was commenting to me and asking me who I thought was hott, I felt awkward :-( then I went to a normal resturant w my grandmother just a diner place to get pie and hes bugging me about that waitress I said idk I don't walk outside and check out every one that crosses my path and decide if I want to sleep w them or not it's gross :-( after all that that was when I decided not to go for the threesome and he drops the whole "oh good I was testing you" crap :-( is it wrong being bisexual and sacrificing to be monogamous I wish he knew what it was like, I feel as if he doesn't see how I try