taking things in stride

I've been trying to 'learn as I go' lately...well as usual... trying to make sense of things...


my Doc said we all do it.. Anyways what I want to talk about is my realization about


social stuff at work...What I mean to say is - if I am offering something of a social niceness...


to someone... the next person may respond in a way that may seem aggravated or 'however'....


just not as you might have thought..and I'll tell you - as crazy as this sounds - it doesn't mean


to result in a huge big lesson you have to learn about how you need to be considerate or behave towards


others. It may just mean, that the 'way they responded' is just the way they responded.. 'how they handled it'...


Not terribly bad or good or a meeting of the minds so to speak...we were all individuals buzzing around there


at the market - and there was a great sense of spirit to it and yet we were all individuals - some I was attracted


to 'as a friend' more than others - but I pretty much felt 'like' for the folks there...some more likeĀ 


That helped a great deal.. And I could appreciate things about myself and others in an appreciative way.



Just notes,


Peace,



Mark

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arfie
arfie

'Twas a time I would have thought that sounded crazy. It is a verifiable fact that I was a proverbial loose cannon during the years I would have thought that sounded crazy. I am ever so grateful Interpol wasn't fully computerized in those days.

Thank you again for the reminder that I am not the center of the universe. Life is so much funner when I can take myself with a spot of humility and just kick back to enjoy the show.

Look. . . There goes another profound questioner, running for the door. . . Remember when? ? ?
malibumark
malibumark

lol...xo
Community LeaderMid
Mid

Here's to finding that inner balance in the midst of the outside balance. Good Work!
malibumark
malibumark

Thanks Mid!
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD

Big hug sweetie.... there is surely wisdom in this journal.... I hear you and I have really been triggered when people took out 'their' feelings inner unrest on me and that was when I wasn't seeing what was really there...... They owned this..... Another hug Marky.....xo
malibumark
malibumark

peace jannie!