Tact or lack of...

Is it me or do people who have never lost a child lack tact! I came into work today ready for anything and the first thing my pregnant boss (who is showing) comes walking over to complain about her swollen feet, aching back and that she is having a baby boy. I mean do you really tell this to someone who has had two miscarriages that you know of? Not to mention that I am now 20 days from my due date? Each day that it comes closer is another reminder of how i should be expecting a little one any day now. Instead i hear from the doctor that it looks like i have PCOS however only a "mild" version of it since I have a mentral cycle so there is nothing else that jumps out as to why I have lost 2 pregnancies. So now I have to go on fertility shots so that I can hold my baby in my arms rather than mourning then. I would do anything to trade to have the back pain, the swelling feet, teh sleepless nights because my stomach is so big. I would do anything...
Instead I am going to have to get injections and then once my body is ready we are going with invitro to make sure the egg and sperm are perfect. It is so hard to except things sometimes when women can get pregnant "normally" and there are people out there who have to go through so much. Just doesn't seem fair somedays.