Surprised
I must say that I'm pleasanlty surprised at what a relief I've felt after finding a place to live. I am actually looking forward to the move. This is almost the last thing my X has held me hostage with. Going from a 4 bdrm 2300 sq ft to 2 bdrm 1300 sq ft place, so this means I have to get rid of a ton of stuff, but again I'm finding this easier then I thought it would be. Having a Estate/Garage sale this month. It amazing how much stuff you accumulate over the years. The worst thing about this whole move is that if X doesn't move in to home I will have to rehome 2 of my dogs which I love. Went to Derm on the 2nd and was told, that I have more Basal cell Cancer. He removed a big chunk out of my back, and is trying to get the spot on my lip by freezing but if it doesn't go away after this last treatment looks like more MOHS. Which stinks, but what are you going to do. Like the old saying "when someone gives you lemons,make lemonade" Thats what I'm doing. So, I'm going back to packing now..Peace out,Diana
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Good luck. You will be fine. I just moved out of my 4 bdroom home w/family room and private living room, 2 decks {1 private} into a 3 bdroom apt. I left 2 acres of land for my kids to play, which has been replaced with blocks and blocks of sidewalks, so it\'s been okay. You also will be fine. Take back your life and take control away from him.
You may find the smaller place more to your liking. Less to heat, clean, etc. We who have BCC have to be thankful it isn\'t something worse. That is how I am dealing with mine. My Mohs surgery isn\'t until August.
Good luck with your move.
Try to enjoy the experience of purging years of \"stuff\". It\'s truly amazing how we collect things we really don\'t need or ever use. It just tends to clutter our lives and our well-being. I hope you can find peace and happiness now that this final issue is going to be resolved. Just hope you don\'t have to give up your dogs. I know that will hurt a lot. That does really stink about your new BCC...hope you like lemonade! :) Best wishes to you on your garage sale and move and everything else!
Hun, I know about those lemons!! I am glad you can still find hope in all of this! I know that packing can really be a pain but, You are starting a new life!! Keep the treasures and sell the junk! make some $ and buy yourself something as beautiful as You!!
In my thoughts and prayers...
P&L, Linda