Stupid Brother

Does my brother actually think up ways to cause me stress?
So he calls me to see if I am home and then asks if I'm going to be home later because he wants to come over to get money and have me write checks for him, I suppose. This is something I do not want to do and something he needs to do for himself. But why doesn't he call and see if I'm home when he is ready to come. Why is he calling to see if I'm home before he is ready to come over. Now I'm supposed to wait here for him to call and say he is coming and then wait for him to come at his own leisure.
So, I'm sitting here waiting for him to call. Stress building, no idea when it is going to come and when it does it is only so he can tell me to wait for him to come over. This is the kind of stupid stuff he does all the time. He seems to have no consideration for anyone but himself.
As far as I know, everyone i nthe wrold wil lcall to be polite and tell someone that they are coming over and when and if the person they are calling isn't there then they do whatever they need and call again later. Not my brother he calls and tells you that he is going to call you later and that he wants to come over for soemthing and makes you wait on him all day.
It's 'F'ing frustrating.
I should go out and let him try and track me down some other day. But I know he woudn't learn anything from it. He has no capacity to think of anyone but himself.

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What to do-what can u do? I guess all u can do is find some inner peace that he cant touch