STILL STUCK!
Mon. Night-Late: I am so frustrated! I cannot seem to get over this huge hump! I have been so sad, so meloncholy, so BLAH! I try to count my blessings. I really do have many. But, they seem to pale in comparison to losing Scott. I just can't quit thinking about what if I had gone in when I heard that "funny" breath. More EMDR for me, I think. Mother's Day was awful. Adam is still housesitting, although he called. Chris came over for dinner, and Craig even gave me a card. Still.... I went to the cemetery. That didn't help much, either. One of Scott's ex-girlfriends sent me an E-Card for Mother's Day. That was nice since we have not always gotten along so well. Tonight one of his best friends came to visit. That was also nice. I only have a couple of weeks left at school until a 2 1/2 month break is here! I am looking forward to that. I am glad I will not be working on June 17th! Adam comes home tomorrow/today. I am glad. The house has been too clean and quiet. He has also missed home. I am having a hard time with sleep again/still. I just can't when I should. Then when I shouldn't... I came home from work today thinking I would nap for an hour. I slept 4! Now, I need to go to bed and sleep is just not there. Maybe soon! I am going to try after I write this. I just feel so crazy, all the time! Nothing is normal anymore. I hated Scott's addiction but at least he was alive and it, sadly, had become my normal. Oh, had I known, last year, that 1 1/2 months down the road I would lose him! It makes me sick! Peaceful wishes to everyone reading this and those who are not. Thank all of you for your support and please know even when I am not in contact with you, I am thinking of you.
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