starting to worry
due to her health my mother lives with us, my issue is not with my mom but with my daughter and her being bullied due to the way she is and her aspergers. she has a new quirk, that we are looking into the medical reason for, its urinary incontinence. now what she has been doing is not contemplating hurting herself one bit, but she is watching all these things on youtube about kids who got bullied and cant take it anymore and kill themselves, she is not talking to me or my wife about it, just my mother who just told me this weekend, she keep saying, what if things get that bad and i want to kill myself, we talk to her constantly about her beng bullied, i was bullied alot as a kid, i know how it feels to be mistreated, she already has a big hill to climb doing everything she does with aspergers but if the external factors in life are causing her this kind of pain i dont knwo what to do, besides homeschooling, but with her condition and how my wife and i work i dont know how we coudl manage it. makes me wanna cray how cruel some people are
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Im so sorry :( tell her that someone a distance away is thinking of her wishing her hope, love, and hugs. That you can be the juciest and tastiest most delicious peach in the world and there will always be someone who just doesnt like peaches but. That doesnt mean you\'re not beautiful and precious :)
Have you considered sending her to a charter school with smaller classes? Or possibly a religious based school that can offer more one on one contact? There are also home schooling coalitions these days with teachers that are willing to teacher small groups of home school children together. It might be worth looking into.Bullying is terriying and very dangerous. Probably wouldnt hurt to restrict what she is exposed online so she isnt feeling extra fears. Best of luck.
I was thinking is there a \"special\" school in your area that your daugther can attend. If you can make a strong enough case- the public school she attends would have to pay for it. Bullying has gotten out of control. Does your school have a zero tolerance policy? If they do MAKE them inforce it. Document everything she is saying and everything that is happening at school. Her emotional safety is important. Let the school know that you are not going to let this ride, they must do something. If they don\'t take it hire. There should be a special needs attorney in your area- that the school knows. Tell them you plan to meet with that attorney- even if you don\'t plan to. I wish you nothing but peace and good will to you and yours! I know it\'s tough, I am the mother of a special need child myself.
i would definately look into this further.bullying can lead to low self esteem and put her in a bad emotional state.I hate people who bully others they are absolutely pathetic and take it out on others.they should be ashamed!..let the school know asap and look into other schools that are supportive.stupid miserable people make life harder than it has to be.sorry you all are having to go threw this..prayers n hugs!
I hope things are going better.
Have you contacted her school about the bukkying? If not, you should do so.